Pet Grief Support in Flower Mound, Coppell, Grapevine, Southlake, and Las Colinas, TX

Integrating Veterinary Social Work for Compassionate Care

Author: Mikayla Jacob, LCSW-S, LISW, Founder and Director of Clinical Services at Sentient Path PLLC
Date: January 21, 2025

Introduction

Losing a beloved pet can feel overwhelming. Many of us form deep emotional bonds with our companion animals, and saying goodfbye can be just as heartbreaking as losing a close friend or family member (Archer, 1997). However, pet grief is often overlooked or minimized, leaving individuals to cope alone. In Flower Mound, Coppell, Grapevine, Southlake, and Las Colinas, Texas, our practice offers specialized pet grief therapy and group support led by a team that includes a therapist trained in Veterinary Social Work (VSW). We accept Aetna insurance for our pet grief groups and provide cash pay options to ensure that compassionate care is accessible and affordable.

What Is Veterinary Social Work?

Veterinary Social Work (VSW) is an emerging interdisciplinary model of care that addresses the complex emotional, social, and mental health aspects of human-animal relationships (International Association of Veterinary Social Workers [IAVSW], 2022). According to Sutton-Ryan (2022), many individuals first seek professional interaction—not with a social worker—but in veterinary spaces. By embedding social work services there, VSW increases access to much-needed support, including pet grief counseling.

VSW practice highlights four core areas:

1. Grief and Loss (including companion animal loss)

2. Compassion Fatigue and Mental Health of Veterinary Professionals

3. Evidence-Based Animal-Assisted Interventions

4. The Link Between Interpersonal Violence and Animal Abuse

Recognizing these connections is crucial, especially given that 70% of U.S. households have at least one pet (American Pet Products Association [APPA], 2022). When a pet dies, the resulting grief can be significant and, at times, disenfranchised—meaning society doesn’t always acknowledge or validate it (Walsh, 2009).

Meet Our Therapist Trained in Veterinary Social Work: Angela Corley, LMSW

One of our pet grief groups is led by Angela Corley, a therapist with extensive training in Veterinary Social Work. Angela has experience supporting individuals and families through the challenges of pet loss, using evidence-based interventions that address both the emotional toll on pet owners and the potential secondary stress on veterinary professionals.

Why VSW Matters for Pet Grief

• Holistic Approach: By understanding the human-animal bond, a VSW-trained therapist like Angela Corley can integrate relevant emotional, social, and relational factors into each session.

• Validated Experiences: VSW professionals acknowledge that pet loss is a major life event, deserving the same level of care as other forms of grief (Sutton-Ryan, 2022).

• Community Education: Angela’s role also includes providing resources and education to veterinarians, vet techs, and others in the local pet care community, fostering a broader network of empathy and support.

Understanding Pet Grief

Pet grief often mirrors the stages of human grief:

1. Shock/Denial

2. Anger

3. Bargaining

4. Depression

5. Acceptance

Yet, cultural or societal stigmas can leave bereaved pet owners feeling isolated or misunderstood (Zilcha-Mano et al., 2012). Through pet grief therapy, you can process these emotions in a safe space, knowing your pain is real and valid.

Individual Counseling Benefits

• Safe, Confidential Environment: Discuss your grief at your own pace.

• Personalized Coping Strategies: Learn mindfulness techniques, journaling, or memorialization activities to honor your pet.

• Focused Support: Address any feelings of guilt or regret, common after the loss of a companion animal.

Group Therapy for Pet Loss

For many, shared experience can be a powerful catalyst for healing. Our pet grief support group offers:

• Collective Understanding: You’ll meet others who empathize with your loss, reducing isolation.

• Mutual Learning: Hearing how others cope provides new strategies and insights.

• Guidance from a VSW Specialist: With Angela Corley’s background, the group benefits from a therapist trained to integrate the human-animal bond into therapeutic interventions.

Why Veterinary Social Work Is Crucial for Pet Grief

• Holistic Integration: VSW recognizes that mental health, veterinary care, and the human-animal bond are interlinked (Sutton-Ryan, 2022).

• Preventing Disenfranchised Grief: VSW-trained therapists validate the depth of your relationship with your pet.

• Support for Veterinary Professionals: Veterinary teams experience high rates of compassion fatigue; VSW can mitigate these stressors (Nett et al., 2015).

Insurance and Payment Options

We strive to make pet grief counseling as accessible as possible:

• Aetna Insurance: Our practice accepts Aetna, streamlining the process for insured clients.

• Cash Pay: For those without insurance or who prefer self-pay, we offer flexible options to ensure you receive quality care.

Serving Flower Mound, Coppell, Grapevine, Southlake, and Las Colinas, TX

Our team is dedicated to supporting local communities across the DFW area. Whether you opt for in-person sessions or telehealth, we tailor our approach to meet your needs. You’re never alone in this journey; we’re here to guide you every step of the way.

Taking the Next Step

1. Reach Out: Schedule a consultation to discuss individual counseling or group therapy with our Veterinary Social Worker.

2. Validate Your Feelings: Remember that losing a pet can be just as impactful as losing a human loved one.

3. Join Our Pet Grief Group: Share your experiences, learn from others, and gain professional insights from Angela Corley.

4. Continue the Conversation: Pet grief can be a long process. Allow yourself the space, time, and support to heal.

Conclusion

Pet grief is real, deeply felt, and deserving of professional care. With Veterinary Social Work training and a compassionate approach, our practice is uniquely equipped to help you navigate this challenging time. Contact us todayto learn more about our pet grief therapy options, including Aetna coverage and cash pay alternatives. Let’s honor your beloved companion together and set you on a path to healing and hope.

References

American Pet Products Association. (2022). APPA national pet owners survey. https://www.americanpetproducts.org/pubs_survey.asp

Archer, J. (1997). Why do people love their pets? Evolution and Human Behavior, 18(4), 237–259.

International Association of Veterinary Social Workers. (2022). IAVSW website. https://veterinarysocialwork.org/

Nett, R. J., Witte, T. K., Holzbauer, S. M., Elchos, B. L., Campagnolo, E. R., Musgrave, K. J., Carter, K. K., Kurkjian, K. M., Vanicek, C., O’Leary, D. R., Pride, K. R., & Funk, R. H. (2015). Prevalence of risk factors for suicide among veterinarians—United States, 2014. MMWR: Morbidity & Mortality Weekly Report, 64(5), 131–132.

Sutton-Ryan, A. (2022). Awareness of veterinary social work in veterinary professionals capstone project. University of Tennessee Veterinary Social Work Certificate.

Walsh, F. (2009). Human-animal bonds I: The relational significance of companion animals. Family Process, 48(4), 462–480.

Zilcha-Mano, S., Mikulincer, M., & Shaver, P. R. (2012). Pet in the therapy room: An attachment perspective on animal-assisted therapy. Social Work, 57(2), 165–177.

Turning Loss into Legacy: How Family Struggles Shape Resilience

Finding Strength in Grief, Addiction, and Family

Introduction
Grief is a powerful teacher. Every loss carries with it a story of love, struggle, and legacy. For me, moments of grief have been moments of reckoning—times when I’m reminded of the strength it takes to endure and the quiet power of radical acceptance. Loss isn’t new to me, but each experience reshapes my perspective on family, identity, and growth. And behind many of these experiences, I’ve witnessed the complex interplay of addiction and recovery, forces that have both fractured and strengthened the roots of my Midwestern family heritage. These trials aren’t just chapters in my life story; they’ve become pieces of my “why”—why I push forward, why I strive, and why I refuse to let struggle define my future.

The Weight of Legacy
My family’s story is one of grit, determination, and a deep connection to the land and each other. On both sides, my parents were the first to attend college, leaving behind familiar routines and expectations. Their choices forged a new path that others didn’t always understand. Yet, it was this leap into the unknown that paved the way for opportunities I might never have had otherwise.

On both my mother and father’s side, the family’s Midwestern farming heritage is rich, but it’s also marked by loss and hardship. In these communities, traditions run deep, and every season of cultivation mirrors the cycles of life and death that we all experience. Within these cycles, I’ve witnessed how addiction can quietly weave itself into family narratives. I’ve seen how substance use can become a way to cope with the pressures of rural life, isolation, and unprocessed grief. In some cases, the legacy of addiction is a heavy one that families carry for generations, compounding the pain of loss and misunderstanding.

Addiction, Recovery, and the Complexity of Loss
Grief takes many forms, but when it’s tied to addiction, it’s often layered with a painful sense of “what if.” What if they had found help sooner? What if the community had understood the disease of addiction and not just the behaviors it produces? Too often, families face these questions alone.

But there’s another side: recovery. I’ve learned that recovery, even when it’s not complete or perfect, is a form of resilience. It’s a profound statement that no matter how deep the roots of addiction go, there is always a chance to break the cycle. Witnessing the struggle for recovery in my family has shown me the courage it takes to face one’s own demons. It’s a reminder that hardship doesn’t have to end in tragedy, and that the human spirit is capable of profound transformation.

These experiences have shaped my understanding of loss, pushing me to recognize the humanity in every story. Instead of allowing grief to paralyze me, it galvanizes me. Each loss—each complicated by substances, misunderstandings, and the weight of unspoken pain—pushes me to dig deeper into my own “why.” Why am I so determined to find purpose in these struggles? Because acknowledging hardship is also acknowledging the power that comes with it.

Grief as a Call to Action
For many people, grief can be paralyzing. For me, it’s a catalyst. Loss has a way of waking me up, pushing me to lean into purpose and pursue what matters most. It doesn’t make grief easier, but it gives it meaning. I’ve experienced the loss of family members who I loved deeply—each time, the ache of absence brings me closer to understanding just how important it is to honor their legacy by living with intention.

Radical acceptance has been my guide. It’s not passive acceptance or pretending everything is fine. It’s about seeing reality as it is—not as I wish it would be—and still finding a way forward. Loss reminds me that I have no control over what happens, but I do have control over how I respond. This perspective keeps me from getting stuck in the “why me” spiral. Instead, I ask myself, “What now?”

Isolation and the Pursuit of Belonging
Isolation has been a recurring theme in my life. The choice my parents made to carve out a new path for our family meant that I was often distant—physically and emotionally—from my larger family. I grew up feeling like a satellite orbiting around a world I wasn't fully part of. For years, that feeling hurt. It still does at times. But over time, I’ve come to see the value of this experience. Isolation gave me independence. It taught me how to navigate uncertainty on my own.

Still, there’s something sacred about family. Even when we are distant from each other, there’s an invisible thread that pulls us back toward one another. I think about the legacy of those who came before me—the struggles, the sacrifices, and the perseverance—and I feel connected to something much bigger than myself.

How We Carry the Stories Forward
When I think about what it means to honor those I’ve lost, I come back to this idea of legacy. I carry their stories with me, not just as memories but as guiding principles. Every loss becomes a quiet reminder to keep pushing forward. Every setback is a chance to practice radical acceptance and remember that while I can’t control everything, I can control how I show up.

My parents' journey, my family's Midwest roots, and the grief I’ve experienced have all taught me the same lesson: The way forward isn't always clear, but you walk it anyway. You honor the people who came before you by doing what they couldn't, wouldn’t, or didn’t have the chance to do.

Conclusion
Grief, like family, is complicated. It’s a reflection of love and loss at the same time. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned from the sacrifices of those before me, it’s that moving forward—even when it’s painful—is one of the greatest acts of love. It’s how we honor the legacy of those we’ve lost. By choosing to build, to grow, and to push forward, we’re not just surviving—we’re thriving in their memory.